I have nothing left. My family aren't bothered about me and my girlfriends gone. I cant help but crave the urge to cut.. i've done it 6 times so far.. i don't know any more. Nothing is worth living for any more
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Maverick
Wolfie
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I dont want to live anymore
Wolfie- Global Moderator
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I dont want to live anymore
Maverick- Mr.1980
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Re: I dont want to live anymore
Aaron, there is always something to live for. Even your girlfriend and you may have had a tough time at the moment that doesn't mean that all is hopeless. Maybe there is a way that you can patch all of this up. Sometimes though giving the person some space after a heated argument or a situation that has happened is always a good thing.
Then when you have cooled down, and so has she maybe you can go back and civilly have a discussion with her and work out the problems together. Relationships problems can be hard, but sometimes when you or her admit that they were wrong and say sorry and find a way to work things out.
I'm so sorry that you have resorted to cutting. It should never have been an option , but I know what you're going through temptation wise It can be very hard with all of the very painful things happening and you feel that there is no other option. Even though there really is. Venting like you're doing right now and maybe taking a nice long walk to clear your head is always a good distraction. The urges to cut can be so severe especially during relationship problems, but I hope that you find a way to stop becuase it's not helping you at all. It is only making the situation worse because cutting is only a temporary numb to the problem and causing another by creating a scab to pick at an another scar to hide.
Aaron I'm always here for you when you need to talk. I'll do everything I can to help. I really hope that everything works out between you and your girlfriend. I'm always here.
Then when you have cooled down, and so has she maybe you can go back and civilly have a discussion with her and work out the problems together. Relationships problems can be hard, but sometimes when you or her admit that they were wrong and say sorry and find a way to work things out.
I'm so sorry that you have resorted to cutting. It should never have been an option , but I know what you're going through temptation wise It can be very hard with all of the very painful things happening and you feel that there is no other option. Even though there really is. Venting like you're doing right now and maybe taking a nice long walk to clear your head is always a good distraction. The urges to cut can be so severe especially during relationship problems, but I hope that you find a way to stop becuase it's not helping you at all. It is only making the situation worse because cutting is only a temporary numb to the problem and causing another by creating a scab to pick at an another scar to hide.
Aaron I'm always here for you when you need to talk. I'll do everything I can to help. I really hope that everything works out between you and your girlfriend. I'm always here.
Huascar- Fledged
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Re: I dont want to live anymore
I agree with Ronnie! Aaron, just do what you want.. what is goal in life? that's the most important question, some people use god to hace a reason to live.
samsimpleasthat- New
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Re: I dont want to live anymore
Aaron, you know I love you mate, I'm glad things are patching up, good luck with the kidneys as well. Always here to help you through your dark times, because we are your family.
Enterprise- Good Poster
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Re: I dont want to live anymore
Aaron, there has to be things to live for. Maybe not right now, because you haven`t found them, but there is always something. Life is too short to want to end it prematurely. You will eventually meet people that you will just fall head over heels for, and they will make you happy.
Huascar- Fledged
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Re: I dont want to live anymore
Yes, maybe you think that there's nothing to do, and you don't want anuthing in your life, but we all have a goal in our lifes we just need to know what is that goal and you'll be happy.
ryanlol- Infamous
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Re: I dont want to live anymore
Aaron, I have to tell this. Your blinded by the bad things in life. There's so much good stuff thats right in front of you, but theres just so much bad stuff you can't even see the good stuff.
Remember that no matter how bad things get, theres always going to be something good.
Try to hold onto the good feeling, and find something that makes you happy. Everyone has something
We all care about you very much, and we want you to be around for a long time to come <3
Remember that no matter how bad things get, theres always going to be something good.
Try to hold onto the good feeling, and find something that makes you happy. Everyone has something
We all care about you very much, and we want you to be around for a long time to come <3
Wolfie- Global Moderator
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Re: I dont want to live anymore
Thank you guys. Everything's getting a lot better now, and hopefully as its now summer the lack of stress will help tremendously, not to mention my activity'll go up
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